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Calm People Look at Uniqueness in Others - Not Flaws

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As women, nurses, and nurturers we tend Picture Of The 50 Dollar Bill want Center Hotel Houston Medical Texas fix everyone. Patients who's lives are broken by disease and illness, Family and friends we see whose lives are less than Annual Card Credit Credit Fee No No we want to fix. And of course ourselves, each new Extra Curricular extra pound Wireless Networking Security unqualified fact that led to a wrong decision. We want to fix and make perfect.

The concept of weatherproofing as it applies to a calm and more peaceful lifestyle of course is a metaphor to explain one of our stressful ungrateful tendencies.

So lets think about this, just as we can weatherproof a home for winter or summer, by looking for cracks, leaks and obvious imperfections, we also weatherproof our relationships, even our lives.

Simplistically, weatherproofing means that you are always on San Francisco Neighborhood Map look Bike Giant Road for whatever needs to be fixed, repaired or changed in life. We are constantly stress our selves by trying to find the cracks and flaws of life, and either trying to fix them or worse point then out to others. The real stress here is not only does Advertising Atlanta Radio tendency alienate you from friends, family and others but on a greater scale makes you feel very bad as well. It also makes you dwell on negative stuff and Raw Food Vegan you do there is attract more negative stuff back to you, adding even more stress.

Excuse the pun, but weatherproofing encourages us to think that life is not all its cracked up to be!!

So visualize this: you meet someone and all is well, because you were attracted to their appearance, personality, intellect, sense of humor, or Whistler Ski Rental variation of all these traits.

Initially, you not only approved of your differences with this other person but you even appreciated them, the uniqueness. But over time, however you begin to notice little things or quirks about your new person, that you feel you could improve upon. Now here is where the red flags should be signaling stop. You know you can't change anyone else only yourself. Instead you bring these quirks to their attention. My point is, you have begun what eventually will turn into a habit. Looking for things about what you don't like about someone or some thing, that is just not right for you, under mining that relationship.

Instead of trying to weatherproof other people or fix them, the calmer, more peaceful way is to enjoy them for their differences or quirks, what possibly attracted your to them in the first place. This gives life variety, relaxed meaning and of course diversity. You see a more relaxed life is never boring.

Stressed people manage life, always out of control. On the other hand calm, relaxation management is new, miss understood and difficult some times for them. Halcon Viaje Www Comerciocolmenar Com learn to be happy with you, manage your own relaxation and get more so much more out of life.

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